The Cycle of Second-Guessing Yourself as an Entrepreneurial Work-from-Home Mom - Debbie Forand

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Are you an entrepreneurial work-from-home mom who often finds yourself second-guessing your decisions? You’re not alone! It’s easy to get stuck in a cycle of second-guessing yourself and feeling like you aren’t doing enough or that no one understands your unique journey as a work-from-home mom. But with hard work, vigilance, and calculated risks, you can break the cycle and explore the horizon. In this blog post, we will discuss the cycle of second-guessing yourself and offer tips on how entrepreneurs and work-from-home moms can take charge of their lives and succeed.

Why We Second-Guess Ourselves

Second-guessing ourselves is something that most of us have faced at some point in our lives. It can be especially daunting for entrepreneurial work-from-home moms who are often navigating uncharted waters, trying to create a successful home business in an unfamiliar environment. Social media marketing, digital creators, direct sales, network marketing, and other entrepreneurial endeavors can often be overwhelming, especially for special needs moms who often have limited resources and support.
The negative influences from family, friends and even strangers can contribute to our mindset, making it difficult to make important decisions when it comes to our business. We’re often told that we have false hopes or that our dreams are too big to realize. The fear of failure can also be paralyzing, leading us to second-guess ourselves and not take the necessary risks to move forward. It is easy to fall into a cycle of second-guessing ourselves when these doubts and fears become too strong.

Who’s Telling Us We Can’t Do It?

As entrepreneurs, it can be difficult to work from home and not feel like we’re constantly second-guessing ourselves. From friends, family, and even strangers on social media, we can all too easily become overwhelmed with negative feedback. It’s easy to think that no one cares about what we have to offer, or that we’re not smart enough to make our entrepreneurial dreams a reality. However, it is important to remember that many successful entrepreneurs have faced these same struggles and have still managed to break through the cycle of second-guessing.
When it comes to social media marketing, we are often met with a lack of engagement and an abundance of negativity. It’s easy to start questioning whether this is the right path for us and our businesses. However, by continuing to stay positive and using social media as an opportunity to engage with customers and showcase our products or services, we can overcome any negative feedback and create success.

How do we Break Out of the Cycle?

So now we know that we are influenced on so many different levels when it comes to our mindset. But how do we break that cycle and stop second-guessing ourselves?
I have a few theories on this.
So first I have walked the walk. I can’t even tell you how many times I wanted to quit not thinking I was good enough.

1. The first thing you need to do is take a break. If you have been grinding it out for a while then step away to rejuvenate your mind. Step away from your laptop and phone, unplug and spend some time in nature, meditate or take a yoga class. Do something to reconnect with yourself and give yourself permission to rest and recharge.

2. The second thing is to ask yourself, what are you good at? Is what you are good at showcased through what you are trying to accomplish? Or are trying to be something you are not? When we are not our true selves, self-doubt and second-guessing what we are doing are going to creep in. So take stock of your talents and use them as your blueprint for success.

3. Who is in your circle? I know we want to love everyone. But if those that are in your circle every day are not celebrating you, or supporting you then you need to find others who do. This can be hard for a lot of entrepreneurs and work-from-home moms but the results of having the right support system can be phenomenal. Look for social media groups, other moms in the same industry, etc. that you can connect with and get support from. Having this type of accountability will help push you out of the cycle and into success. Also, don’t forget to celebrate each win – no matter how small! The key is recognizing what you’ve accomplished and staying focused on it. Social media can be a powerful tool for entrepreneurs – it’s full of potential resources and collaborations – but don’t forget to be mindful of comparisonitis. Don’t allow negative thoughts or feelings related to self-doubt to keep you down. Use social media as a way to inspire, motivate, and educate yourself instead!

4. When it comes to breaking out of the cycle of second-guessing yourself, it’s important to practice self-care and lead a healthy lifestyle. Eating nutritious meals, getting enough sleep, and engaging in physical activity can help you feel more energized and motivated to take on new challenges. It’s also important to take time for yourself. Make sure to find activities that bring you joy, whether it’s reading a book, going for a walk, or spending time with friends.

Additionally, make sure to surround yourself with positive people who support your goals and dreams. Reach out to family and friends who will motivate you and encourage you to keep pushing forward. Don’t be afraid to seek professional help if needed. Talking to a therapist or a career coach can be beneficial in giving you insight into how to better approach decisions and the right steps to take to reach success.
When it comes to second-guessing yourself, remember that you are capable of making decisions that are best for you. Learn to trust yourself and know that your experience and skills are valid. Take a deep breath, focus on your goals, and know that no one has all the answers — we’re all learning as we go. Develop a healthy lifestyle, focusing on eating nutritious meals, getting enough sleep, and engaging in physical activities. Taking some time for yourself to do the things you love can help you reset and realign with your goals. Also, surrounding yourself with positive people who will support and motivate you is key. They can provide that extra boost of confidence that is needed to take risks and move forward. By focusing on yourself and creating the right environment, you will be able to break out of the cycle of second-guessing yourself and become more confident in the decisions you make.